“Men’s vows are women’s traitors!
“A strong man doesn’t have to be dominant toward a woman. He doesn’t match his strength against a woman weak with love for him. He matches it against the world.
“A woman can’t be alone. She needs a man. A man and a woman support and strengthen each other. She just can’t do it by herself.
“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.
“Intense love does not measure, it just gives.
“The unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most about what other people think.
“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.
“ Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.
“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.
“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?
“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.
“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.
“If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.
“Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.
“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever
“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.
“But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.